110 Naughty Things to Put on Your Sex Bucket List Right Now
There is no one-size-fits-all way to have good sex, full stop. Considering the number of sex positions, sex toys, types of sex, and TV sex scenes out there to provide horny inspo, there’s always something new and unique to try. So whether you’re single or coupled up, one of the very first sex-related tasks you’ll want to tackle is the creation of your very own sex bucket list.
Just like a normal bucket list, a sex bucket list is full of all the ~sexy~ things you want to try in your life. (I know, it’s a lot.) You can fill your list up with whatever you want and tailor it to your own individual fantasies, and add new ideas as you think of them and keep an open mind as you discover new turn-ons.
What’s really great about a sex bucket list is that it’s not at all set in stone. Since sexual preferences ebb and flow throughout our lives, chances are your desires might change and shift as you grow. Not only is that totally normal—but it’s actually pretty exciting! Weren’t into the idea of having a threesome but now find it low-key arousing? Add it! Loved the idea of having sex in public but now feel like you’re more of a sex-in-bed kind of person? Remove it! Have fun fantasizing about which ideas make you feel some kind of way, and revise your list as much—or as little—as you’d like.
As a jumping-off point, consider adding some (or all!) these 110 suggestions to your very own sex bucket list. 10/10 recommend trying them all…
1. Experiment with different kinks.
Kinks are basically anything that arouses you, and there are tonnns of different ones out there. Maybe you like the feeling of latex against your skin? Or getting spanked? Or wearing heels in bed? Try some different kinky moves and ideas out.
2. Go to a nude beach.
Whether you strip down and get frisky or just soak up the, ahem, scenery, hitting up a nude beach is an experience you have to have at least once in your life (or more, if you enjoy it).
3. Have sex in a graveyard.
It’s sexy! It’s spooky! It’s a fun reminder that life is short and orgasms are great! Just make sure to go when it’s dark and remember, public sex *is* illegal, so do with that what you will.
4. Give a foot job.
It’s like a hand job but done with your feet. FWIW: It’s best to give your piggies a wash before bestowing your partner with a foot job.
5. … Get a foot job.
These boots aren’t just made for walking, bb. You’d be surprised at all that can be accomplished when you incorporate both hands and feet into the lurve making.
6. Enjoy a round of sensual foot massages.
OK, if foot jobs sound too extreme, how about sensual foot massages? The feet have so many nerve endings, and some people actually orgasm from foot rubs alone, which means pedicures are about to become a lot more fun.
7. Film yourself having sex.
Ready to make a sex tape? Be sure to turn off your sharing, get enthusiastic consent from your partner (and decide what you’ll do with the tape after), and start brainstorming names for your future reality show.
8. Film yourself masturbating.
If you don’t have a partner or don’t feel like recording your coupled-up sex, how about some solo clips? Watching yourself masturbate is not only v hot, but you might also pick up a tip or two from yourself, which is like masturbation inception in all the best ways.
9. Have sex on a pool table.
It’s pretty much the most cliché thing you can do, but you gotta have sex on a pool table at least once to then never do it again.
10. Have sex on a boat.
Whether it’s a cruise, a yacht, a sailboat, or a canoe, hook up on a boat to experience the ~motion of the ocean.~ Just be careful if you’re prone to seasickness.