How to Spot a Fake Orgasm
Avoiding the Point of No Return
It’s the daily Instagram message. “She doesn’t want sex anymore. What can I do???” The sex was great at first. Three times a day. Now, it’s been a year. Or more. Those of you that are still getting laid are wondering if she’s really into it or if she is just trying to please you. She doesn’t seem to like it the way that she used to. Are those orgasms real? How can you tell?
I’ve met plenty of women during my time as an intimacy coach who have admitted to faking orgasms. Chances are you’ve experienced some fake ones along the way. Yes, even you. To make it even more difficult to spot, every woman’s orgasm is unique to her. You can’t think you know a real one just because that’s how your ex came. So what’s a guy to do?
Why Do Women Fake It?
If she’s not into it and she’s ready for it to be over, she’ll act like she came so that you’ll feel like it’s ok for you to come and it can end. Or, it might just not be happening for her, for whatever reason, and rather than dealing with hurting your ego, having to talk about it or trying harder, she’d rather just fake it. Sometimes that seems easier. But whether you’re learning how to last longer on your own, or through online sex classes, there is always an answer.
I’d suggest that rather than going down the rabbit hole of trying to find out if her orgasms are real or fake, learn how to please a woman so you can always give her a real one. Now, granted, the female orgasm is a two-way street. A woman can train her body to orgasm just like you can train yourself to give her an orgasm. If she’s shut down sexually from repressive conditioning, trauma or abuse, then it may be very difficult for her to orgasm.
Here’s Where I Step In
This is an area that Tantra can help in. Tantra can be very effective at healing sexual wounds. When a woman has a partner that is skilled in Tantra, it can help her heal. When she is also trained in Tantra, she can learn how to release the trauma from her body and awaken herself to pleasure. Learning the right way to give a pussy massage is a profound way to connect, to understand her body and to help her orgasm without the pressure that women can feel to perform during sex.
Women can orgasm in many parts of their bodies. She can have breast orgasms, clitoral orgasms, G-spot, A-spot, cervical and anal orgasms, just to name a few. The trick is actually finding the right spot and now the right way to stimulate that part of her body. It’s not something that you want to be fumbling around in the dark for. Get some training beforehand and you’ll both be much happier. And, hey, you don’t have all of those same pleasure spots on your body so no one is faulting you for needing to get a map, only for refusing to get one!
This is where the real sexual mastery begins. Once you learn all of the tricks, forget them. The last thing that you want to be during sex is in your head, thinking about moves. You want to be in your body. You want to be connected to her. You want to be moving sexual energy and transcending all of this. You want to be in a place that is so sublime that orgasms don’t even matter.
A place I can guide you to, and a place where you will learn to guide others too. So if you want to unlock the secrets of tantra and harness ultimate sexual mastery, make the leap, and start your road to becoming a Sex Stallion today.