In a relationship, to get the love you want, it’s necessary to give the love you want. Both partners must choose to show up with love regardless of the situation.
Navigating sex after divorce can be an emotional experience for men. For years I’ve coached men as they’ve faced their insecurities. I’ve seen man after man show up with the same crushing self-doubt that is killing their possibilities of having an epic sex life. The way we have sex begins long before we get into bed for sex.